ESTJ

ESTJ friendship compatibility: best friends with ESTP. As a friend, ESTJ is the one who splits the bill — down to the last coin, in the group chat, before you have left the restaurant. The stereotype makes ESTJs organized, frank and dependable, the friend who runs the fantasy league, the class reunion and the neighborhood clean-up. They show loyalty by showing up and by fixing practical problems fast. In our friendship rule ESTJ scores highest with ESTP, who shares the S, E and T and adds the go-with-it energy that makes a well-organized weekend actually fun. Two ESTJs score high too, though the itinerary may get color-coded twice. The hardest friendship on paper is with INFJ, whose quiet, layered way of talking can feel slow to someone who likes things said plainly.

Best friend type

ESTP

96% · the “let's just go” friend

Hardest match

INFJ

64% · the one who remembers what you said last spring

Friend scores follow one rule we designed ourselves: base 46; S/N same +18 or different +2; E/I same +14 or +6; J/P different +10 or same +6; T/F same +8 or +4. Not an official MBTI product.