INFJ friendship compatibility: best friends with INFP. As a friend, INFJ is the one who remembers what you said last spring — the throwaway comment about your sister, the job you were worried about, the song you liked. The stereotype paints INFJs as private, warm and very selective, the friend with few people but deep conversations, who notices when you are off before you say a word. They can vanish when overloaded and need friends who do not keep score. In our friendship rule INFJ scores highest with INFP, who shares the N, the I and the F and brings looser, more playful energy to their careful world. The hardest friendship on paper is with ESTJ, the bill-splitter, whose brisk, practical style can feel like a lot to someone who reads every pause.
- Best friend type
- INFP
- 96% · the playlist maker
- Hardest match
- ESTJ
- 64% · the one who splits the bill
Top 3 friends for INFJ
The hardest friendship for INFJ
All 16 types as INFJ's friend
- INFJ + INFP · Best friends forever96%
- INFJ + INTP · Easy friends92%
- INFJ + INFJ · Easy friends92%
- INFJ + INTJ · Easy friends88%
- INFJ + ENFP · Easy friends88%
- INFJ + ENTP · Good company84%
- INFJ + ENFJ · Good company84%
- INFJ + ENTJ · Good company80%
- INFJ + ISFP · Good company80%
- INFJ + ISFJ · Takes some effort76%
- INFJ + ISTP · Takes some effort76%
- INFJ + ISTJ · Takes some effort72%
- INFJ + ESFP · Takes some effort72%
- INFJ + ESFJ · Chaotic duo68%
- INFJ + ESTP · Chaotic duo68%
- INFJ + ESTJ · Chaotic duo64%
Friend scores follow one rule we designed ourselves: base 46; S/N same +18 or different +2; E/I same +14 or +6; J/P different +10 or same +6; T/F same +8 or +4. Not an official MBTI product.