Korean Etiquette
Switching to casual speech
Why
Dropping polite speech is a sign of closeness, so it's agreed on, not assumed.
Do
- Let the older person suggest it.
- Agree clearly when it's offered: 네, 편하게 할게요.
Avoid
- Don't switch on your own with someone older.
- Don't switch back to formal speech when you're upset — it reads as cold.
Useful sentence
우리 말 편하게 할까요?uri mal pyeonhage halkkayo?Shall we speak casually with each other?
These are general customs; people, generations and situations vary — kindness covers most mistakes.